RedQuestionAsker2 [he/him, she/her]

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  • since I guess I reject the idea that the way I feel is “feminine” as much as its just not “masculine”

    Hah, yeah. I think we share a lot of the same experience and views on this. I’ve worn women’s clothing for years now, but I only refer to them as women’s clothing because people know what I’m talking about when I say women’s clothing. When I refer to them, they’re just “my clothes.” I don’t think they have a gender. I revoke the idea that skirts or dresses are inherently feminine. I wouldn’t ever call myself a crossdresser.

    HOWEVER, there are times when masculine and feminine categories have meaning for how I personally express myself. I guess that’s where the fluidity comes in.

    Is that just my ingrained sense of not wanting to identify as feminine?

    Maybe. When I was really questioning, it kicked up a lot internalized misogyny, homophobia, transphobia, etc.

    Or maybe you really are just agender. Don’t know, only you can reflect on that one.

    Good luck with the reading! You can find it free on libgen. Feel free to DM me if you wanna chat about it.